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Anal sex – can buttplugs help?

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I believe I would really enjoy anal sex and I am never shy or scared to try new things but oh my god my butt just won’t open!!!! My bf has a hard time even getting a single finger in there, let alone the whole penis. BF wants to try buttplugs to get things going but idk, penis is one thing, weird little cones is another. But if it can help, why not, I guess?

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  1. Oh yes. Definitely butt plugs and dilators. That’s their main purpose, after all, to help dilate your anus so the penis can get in. The sphincter is not used to being dilated in this manner so when your partner approaches you with a finger or a penis, it gets even more stiff and won’t open. A butt plug is designed in a way that gradually widens the anus, starting very slowly and then expanding it as much as it needs to be expanded for anal sex, thanks to their shape. They are also very soft and gentle. Give it a shot.

    Mariam - Feb 13, 2017 | Reply

  2. When I was younger, it was impossible for me to have anal without some butt plug play first. The fingers cannot do what a plug does, that’s the whole point. Get one, a small one for starters, and see for yourself.

    NathSky - Feb 13, 2017 | Reply

  3. Definitely. Yes. Butt plugs are VERY helpful, even for the most timid little butts.

    GorgeousYounger - Feb 13, 2017 | Reply

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